Potty Training & Bed Wetting

 

 

 

 

 

You Can Go to the Potty (Sears Children Library)
by Martha Sears, William Sears, Christie Watts Kelly, Renee Andriani (Illustrator)

It's two books in one!  This very popular book combines a picture book for little people with information pages for parents and helpful side bars that address those awkward questions that kids might ask while toileting.  At the back of the book you'll find a list of parenting resources in books and on the Web.

 

 

Mommy! I Have to Go Potty!: A Parent's Guide to Toilet Training
by Jan Faull

 

Filled with smart, sensible advice, this helpful book covers all the aspects of potty training including how to know if your child is ready, how to get started, how to side step the power struggles, and what to do about night time wetting and constipation, as well as whether or not to use rewards.  Unlike many so-called "experts", Jan Faull has had years of hands-on experience working with young children and their parents on this issue, especially in the childcare setting.  Aware that every child is different she offers real advice for real families.

 

 

 

 

 


Toilet Learning
:
The Picture Book Technique
 for Children and Parents

Written by A. Mack

  "TOILET LEARNING is a unique approach to a vital problem."--Dr. Louise Bates Ames, Child Psychologist; Co-Director, Gesell Institute of Child Development.

  "TOILET LEARNING's major strengths are in its informal, positive, developmental orientations as opposed  to punitive and operant orientations."--Dr. Ira J. Gordon,   Educational and Developmental Psychologist

 

 

Going to the Potty

(First Experiences)
by
Fred Rogers, Jim Judkis (Photographer)
 

Kids were always able to count on Fred Rogers of Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood to tell them the truth with gentleness and simplicity.  This book features large color photos of other kids using the potty, while explaining the benefits of mastering these important skills, and reassuring that it's okay to make mistakes.  (Note that this book does not show genitals.)

 

Parents Book of Toilet Teaching
Written by Joanna Cole

"Take the frustration out of toilet teaching with the first comprehensive guide based on understanding your child's needs first. Sensible and sensitive, this new, easy-to-use book will turn toilet teaching into a natural, growing experience, as you learn: How to instill reassuring daily routines; how to ease the transition from diapers to underpants; how to reinforce success--and alleviate stress, and much more." -- editorial review   Paperback edition.
126 pages

 

Unlike many other rings, this one is made for both regular and oblong toilets.  Manufactured of wipe-clean vinyl with a deflector for boys and a soft, padded seat.

Also available in Sponge Bob & Sesame Street patterns.

 

 

My Big Girl Potty

My Big Boy Potty

by Joanna Cole, Maxie Chambliss (Illustrator)

Potty training can be fun. With warmth and sensitivity, Joanna Cole and Maxie Chambliss guide young girls and boys through the challenges and rewards of potty training--from the first steps to the joy of graduating to big kid underpants! A helpful "Note to parents" is included.

From School Library Journal
PreSchool-This set of gender-specific potty-training books is a cut above the rest in an already crowded field. Like Alyssa Satin Capucilli's The Potty Book for Boys and The Potty Book for Girls (both Barron's, 2000), their texts are identical, except for the gender references. "Michael is a boy just your age." "Ashley is a girl just your age." In both of Cole's titles, the parents buy a potty, encourage their child to use it, and eventually success is achieved. While the watercolor illustrations are not identical in the two books, they are very similar and add a cheerful, perky touch, portraying a boy/girl well into the toddler stage, surrounded by loving, smiling parents (no stress here).


 

Your New Potty
Written by Joanna Cole. Illustrated by Margaret Miller

Patience and reassurance are the attitudes recommended to parents toilet-training their children. The encouraging story features clear photographs of relaxed children, and sensible advice 40 pages.

 

Too Big for Diapers (Too Big Board Books)

 

Too Big for Diapers (Too Big Board Books)
by JOHN E. BARRETT (Photographer)

Baby Ernie is too big for diapers! He's ready to try out his brand-new potty. It may take a few tries, but soon Ernie learns he can use the potty all by himself!   Great toilet time reading material for the little person learning to be patient on the potty! 

 

 

A Potty for Me! : A Lift-the-Flap Instruction Manual
by Karen Katz (Illustrator)

Written from the child's point of view, this little lift the flap book follows along with the child at play, eating, sitting on the potty, sleeping... and finally achieving potty use success.   A nice read along book to keep a child  busy on the potty while while waiting "to go".

 

 

Everyone Poops (My Body Science)
by Taro Gomi, Amanda Mayer Stinchecum (Translator)

Although cold-shouldered by many adults simply for it's subject matter, this book has been a hit with toddlers and preschoolers ever since its publication in 1993.   Because little children learn by observation, and because they are given little opportunity to observe other people and creatures engaged in this basic bodily function,  they relish this book which fills in the gaps in their information.

 A picture really is worth a thousand words and this board book uses simple and stylized illustrations to make the point that birds, horses, elephants, people (etc.) all poop, that it comes out of that opening in their bottom, and that little people can do their poop in the potty.    Adults may think it's enough to make cute, vague references to the purpose of sitting on the potty, but kids are natural scientists -- they feel good about knowing what's really going on!

 

 

On DVD & Video

 

Bear in the Big Blue House - Potty Time with Bear

This is a fun way to reinforce potty training concepts in a relaxed, fun, respectful and no-pressure manner.  The well-loved characters of Disney Channel's  Bear in the Big Blue House demonstrate upbeat negotiation of such issues as:  remembering to wipe and wash hands, coping with accidents, what to do when at a friend's house, and having to interrupt an exciting activity to use the bathroom.    Warm-hearted, playful and sometimes hilarious, the video contains a number of songs and musical numbers including:

"Welcome Song"
"Potty Chair"
"Toileteers"
"Goodbye Song"

 

 

 

Once Upon A Potty
 
by Alona Frankel. 

The chief appeal here is the humor of a little guy trying to figure out what the heck to do with this new thing (a potty) he's been given.  Especially useful if frustration has left your family needing a little comic relief.  40 pages. 

 


 

It's Potty Time for Girls

It's Potty Time for Boys

by Ron Berry, Chris Sharp, Gary Currant (Illustrator)

The perfect book for little ones who are afraid of the flushing sound!  This cheerful interactive book allows your child to "flush" the potty.  (Warning, battery has a limited lifetime of flushes.)

 

 
Toilet Trainer
by Totco

If your child is crazy about flushing, you might consider this model which features a storage container for wipes or spare training pants.  When the handle is pushed, it makes a realistic flushing sound.   It's not the most economical model, but if it gets the job done...

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Koko Bear's New Potty
Written by V. Lansky. Illustrated by Jane Prince

32 pages, paperback edition.  This unisex doll and read-aloud story shows children that toilet training is only a part of the larger process of growing up. The book warmly conveys the family's happiness with Koko's successes while also allowing for hesitations.

 

 

I Have to Go!
by Robert Munsch, Michael Martchenko (Illustrator)

From School Library Journal
Andrew's mother and father are careful to ask him beforehand, "Andrew, do you have to go pee?'' Andrew always answers, "No, no, no.'' Any parent can guess the rest. As soon as he's firmly belted in the car or immobilized in a snowsuit , Andrew bellows "I have to go!''

His family is annoyed, but kind, about the inconvenience, and Andrew surprises everyone by getting up at night to go to the bathroom with grandpa and not wetting his bed again that evening. The cartoon characters are expressive and nice. A potty-trained child from three to five will enjoy the humor in this preschool vignette, but like a family photo album, this subject has limited appeal. This is an attractive, well-designed, sturdy package, but an ever-so-additional choice. Anna Biagioni Hart, Sherwood Public Library, Alexandria, Va.
Copyright 1988 Reed Business Information, Inc.   PreSchool-K

 

 

Clouds and Clocks: A Story for Children Who Soil
by Matthew Galvin

Upset and afraid when his beloved grandfather has to go to the hospital, Andrew, whose working mother has little time for him, develops a problem of his own when he stops using the toilet.

Review From School Library Journal
Kindergarten-Grade 3-- These utilitarian titles deal with soiling (encopresis) and the death of a grandfather. According to the foreword to parents in Clouds and Clocks, approximately one percent of five-year-olds have a problem with bowel control, thus suffering isolation, frustration, and embarrassment. When Andrew's grandfather goes to the hospital, Andrew starts having a problem of his own. Mornings are rushed, and he doesn't want to use the bathroom at school; children tease him, and his mother is angry because he soils his pants.

With the help of a physician and a psychiatrist, Andrew and his mother learn to relax and to share their feelings. Full-page illustrations are brushed charcoal with soft blue cloud and sky backgrounds swirled with white. The book, intended for parents to use with children, could fill a need in large collections. Gran-Gran's Best Trick is seeing things that no one else notices, and when he dies, his granddaughter is determined to remember that and everything else about him so that her baby sister could someday know Gran-Gran too.

The soft, black-pencil drawings and text are framed within a thin line, creating broad white borders. Separation and death are warmly and lovingly addressed in a number of other books; therefore, while Gran - Gran is a pleasant book, it is an additional purchase where demand is high. --Virginia Opocensky, formerly at Lincoln City Libraries, NB
Copyright 1989 Reed Business Information, Inc.

 



 

Pull-Ups Just for Kids, Flushable Moist Wipes,

$1.89 for a refill pack of 50 ea

A great product for kids and parents dealing with the transition of potty training!  Use Just Kids instead of toilet paper or just as a "finishing step" for greater economy.

5-1/2 x 6-in Wipes. Alcohol free with Aloe and Vitamin E. These pre-moistened flushable wipes encourage your child to become independent in the bathroom. Safe for sewer and septic. Mild ingredients.

 

 

 

On Bedwetting

 

 

Dry All Night : The Picture Book Technique That Stops Bedwetting
by Alison Mack

From Library Journal
The lone title uncovered at the local library against which to compare this book--Dr. Robert L. Rowan's Bed-Wetting: A Guide for Parents (St. Martin's, 1974)--contains this stunningly negative statement: "The majority of children who develop the pattern of bed-wetting, however, do so in a desire to influence the family or social environment about them, as a response to anxiety or hostility, or as a means for challenging parental control." Even though this book is written by a layperson, its approach, layout, and factual information are far superior to Rowan's. Mack's excellent book is designed to be used by both parents and children. First, she discusses the medical and psychological aspects of enuresis and encourages parents to apply positive reinforcement. She follows this with a picture book for school-age children which uses imagery, repetition, and commonality to help children achieve nighttime bladder control. Recommended.
- K.E. Megginson, VA Medical Ctr., Fayetteville, Ark.
Copyright 1989 Reed Business Information, Inc.--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Card catalog description
A step-by-step program for curing bedwetting, with separate sections for parent and child.

 

No More Bedwetting :
How to Help Your Child Stay Dry

by Samuel J. Arnold
 The publisher, John Wiley & Sons
This book helps parents and other concerned caregivers understand what causes bedwetting and what can be done about it. Shows parents how to handle each type of bedwetting; whether the cause is anatomical, psychological, or a sleep problem. Explains the most effective treatment that parents can use to save their child from unnecessary shame and damage to self-esteem.

Product Description:
In this reassuring, eye-opening book, noted urologist Samuel J. Arnold explains how almost all childhood bedwetting can be cured or controlled. Drawing on over 35 years of experience—and thousands of actual cases—Dr. Arnold illustrates how, contrary to conventional thinking, most bedwetting is caused by underlying physical conditions—conditions that often can be corrected quickly and effectively. And he dispels the harmful and mistaken notion that long-term bedwetting is caused by disobedience, toilet-training conflicts, or parental attitudes.

This essential and supportive guide can help you help your child. No More Bedwetting reveals:

  • The many different factors behind bedwetting

  • How to determine the root cause of your child's problem and what to do about it

  • The roles of heavy sleep, diseases, anatomical problems, allergies, hormones, and other factors

  • The damage of harmful treatments such as punishment or withholding fluids

  • A full range of tested strategies and recommendations

 

 

Seven Steps to Nighttime Dryness:
A Practical Guide for Parents of Children with Bedwetting

by Renee Mercer

From the Publisher
This book is a practical guide for parents of children with bedwetting. Easy to follow, in layman’s terms, it outlines simple steps to assist children in getting dry. From general topics such as causes of bedwetting, when to start treatment and what to do – to very practical suggestions, such as siblings, deep sleepers and troubleshooting alarms, this book is full of useful information. If your child is experiencing the frustration of bedwetting, this book is what you need to become more informed and help him or her become dry every night.

Product Description:
Seven Steps to Nighttime Dryness is written for parents who need assistance with helping their child achieve dryness. Written by Renee Mercer, a nurse practitioner with years of success in helping kids learn to stay dry at night, she outlines a positive, very practical approach to ending bedwetting. In seven steps, you will learn:

(1) What does and does not cause bedwetting;
(2) How to select the right time to start treatment;
(3) The treatment options available, and which is right for your child;
(4) How to choose a bedwetting alarm;
(5) How to prepare your child to begin treatment;
(6) How to effectively use a bedwetting alarm; and
(7) When to stop treatment.

This book answers hundreds of commonly asked questions that parents and children have about bedwetting and the steps to achieve dryness. It provides in depth information on what to expect when using a bedwetting alarm, how parents should respond and common children’s responses.

 

 

 Dry Days, Wet Nights
Written by Maribeth Boelts, Illustrated Kathy Parkinson

From Publishers Weekly
As the title intimates, this reassuring tale is aimed at bedwetters. Little Bunny (LB) doesn't want to wear diapers at night anymore. His mother explains that when his body is ready, he'll stay dry, but agrees to let him "see what happens." A round of "wet nights" ensues, through which LB's parents maintain their composure, assuring their tearful, discouraged offspring both through words and their calm reactions that he's perfectly normal and shouldn't worry. Sure enough, one morning LB finally wakes up dry, and he and his parents celebrate. Though slightly wordy, the text flows pleasantly, and Boelts's point is gently, rather than overbearingly, conveyed. Parkinson's pen-and-wash illustrations are filled with amusing touches (Mama Bunny shows up at LB's bedside in robe and--what else?--bunny slippers), and LB is particularly likable, a fetching hero for the aspiring diaper-free. Ages 4-6.
Copyright 1994 Reed Business Information, Inc.--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

From School Library Journal
PreSchool-K-Bunny has a difficult time trying to understand why his pajamas and bed are wet nearly every morning when he wakens. His parents help him through this "growing up" period by explaining that he will be dry-all night- when the time is right. And, of course, that time comes. A family outing for the day is in order as a celebration for Bunny's newfound pride and excitement. The watercolor illustrations portray a kind, loving family that is certain to be reassuring to the intended audience. Through a well-constructed story line, many young children will recognize themselves, and be reassured. The book encourages patience in an upbeat manner. A note in the front offers explanations and sound advice for anxious parents.
Mary Lou Budd, Milford South Elementary School, OH
Copyright 1994 Reed Business Information, Inc.

 

 

 

Sammy the Elephant and Mr. Camel:
A Story to Help Children Overcome Enuresis While Discovering Self-Appreciation

by Joyce C., Ph.D. Mills, Richard J., Ph.D. Crowley, Germaine Cook (Illustrator)


With Mr. Camel's help, Sammy the Elephant learns to strengthen his trunk muscles so he is finally able to assume his circus duty of carrying water and appreciate all the other things he can do, too.

Product Description:
In this delightful fable for helping children to overcome bedwetting and to believe in their own self-worth, Sammy is a little elephant who can't hold his water. When he befriends Mr. Camel, he learns tricks and tips to hold his water until the right time to let it go, and later uses these new-found skills to put out a fire. With 26 richly textured illustrations, this gentle, cheery story will help children learn about their own inner strengths and resources. For ages 4-8.

 

Accidental Lily:
Written by Sally Warner, Illustrated by Jacqueline Rogers

 Since moving to Philadelphia, six-year-old Lily Hill (Private Lily, 1998, etc.) has had almost nightly problems with bad dreams and bed-wetting. Embarrassed by these accidents, she doesn't see how she can accept a friend's invitation to a sleepover birthday party.

 

 

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