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Ah yes the birthday party.. Ever
since earliest childhood it has loomed as that one special
day we could count on to feel that we were truly
special, truly doted on
by the people that love us.

When all our friends and relations
would gather round and shower us with gifts and good wishes.
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That moment when we can
be Mommy, or Daddy's,
little Princess. Or Prince.

When they drop everything
just to
sing us a merry song
and watch us blow out the freakin' candles.
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It's lovely.
And yet what happens
all too often?
Friends forget us.
Plans go awry.
Something really sucky happens.

In short, our birthday STINKS!!
And if you're particularly unlucky, a
whole lot of your birthdays suck.
And life in general seems
a
whole lot less kind...
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"Well screw that!"

Oh sure... we could mope and whine, get
bitter, nasty.
Chase after material things and people ...
We could harden our hearts and say
we don't
really need 'em anyhow!
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Or...
We could
go to Burning Man
and party 'til we're purple!
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Okay wait... that's a Spongebob thing...
(the partying 'til purple part)
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But the point is it's never to late to
have some childlike fun,
or to find people willing to make time for it!
...And in the long run,
hanging on to that
compassionate, fun-loving kid inside
is what powers us to care about
other people.
About animals. The environment....
And so we pick ourselves up off the
floor and say, "Screw the Mean People!" And bitter
circumstances. And the shitty stuff that goes on in the
world. We can decide not to let it hold us back, make us
give up -- on love, laughter, trust, and joy.
But how do we move on from
there?
Maybe it's as simple as
believing we are good, and deserve good. That there is a
loving presence just waiting to lend a hand...

Or... maybe it's about banding
together with others of our kind
to fend off the status quo "normalcy". To give
a hug, a bit of encouragement.
Or maybe it's about forgiving --
ourselves... others.. the universe. Accepting that when
we fall down we may have a bit more to learn.
But maybe... just maybe...
it's also about
not taking it all so seriously.
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Whatever the answer is..
we're pretty sure
that being silly
is a step in the right direction.
So if you're out at Black
Rock City to see The Man burn,
don't be shy, just
stop on by
and let us wish you...

A Very
Merry Un-Birthday... to you!
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How the
Un-Birthday Camp Idea Started
The idea for our camp arose from
the fact that this last year on my daughter's 16th birthday my mother
was in the hospital, dying of cancer. It should have been a
very special and happy day of celebration. Instead we had no
party and a lot of heart ache. So we decided to have an
"un-birthday" party (camp) to share with people at Burning Man.
Stop on by and say hi, and
celebrate the fact that life may deal us some crappy hands, but
that we don't have to let it run us. After all, it's
never too late to have a very merry un-birthday!
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